For independent matchmakers

Carry a bigger book. Keep the curation.

Your business runs on DMs, a spreadsheet and your memory. Matchmaker moves each candidate into one private chat with you, with the DM history they came from and your notes kept beside it.

An example conversation in Matchmaker: the Instagram DM history the matchmaker pasted in when onboarding a candidate, marked as visible only to the matchmaker, then the candidate accepting the invitation and the chat carrying on in the app, with the candidate's history of changes beside it.

The way it works today

Four apps, and none of them remember what she said in March.

In March, Priya was certain she wanted children. In September she said she's not sure. That shift is exactly the kind of thing you get paid to notice, and it's buried in a chat you'll never scroll back to.

  • Instagram DMswhere candidates find you
  • WhatsAppwhere the real talking happens
  • A spreadsheetwhere profiles go to get stale
  • Your memorywhere everything else lives

How it works

From a DM to a candidate in three steps

Keep meeting people where you already do. When someone's ready to work with you, invite them in.

  1. Onboard them from the DM

    When a conversation on Instagram or WhatsApp turns serious, click Onboard and add their email. Their name, handles and the DM so far are optional. The pasted history is only ever visible to you.

  2. They get an invitation

    We email them an invitation from invites@matchmaker.io with your name on it. Or copy the invite link and drop it straight into the DM. Meanwhile you can read the history and add notes.

  3. Carry on in the chat

    They sign up with their name and email, accept, and the conversation carries on in a private chat with you. There's no app to download.

What you get

Everything your DMs can't do.

A complete inbox for your book from day one. Choosing and introducing people is still your job.

One chat per candidate

Each candidate gets one real-time conversation with you, in the app. No more scrolling back through DMs to find what they said.

Their history comes with them

Paste in the DM thread when you onboard someone. It opens their conversation, marked as only visible to you.

Invite by email or link

Candidates get an invitation with your name on it, or you paste the invite link into the DM. Resend it, revoke it or fix a mistyped email any time.

Notes and a full history

Private notes on every candidate, plus a record of every change: details edited, invitations sent, who joined and who left.

Notified, not spammed

Push and email tell you a new message is waiting, never what it says. Once you've read the conversation, they stop.

Built for your phone

You work between meetings, so every conversation works fully on a phone screen, and the app installs to your home screen.

Coming next

AI assistance. Replies suggested in your voice, and a candidate profile that builds itself as they talk. Nothing is sent without you, and if the AI is ever down, everything above keeps working.

Our rule

We organise. You decide.

We're not building a dating app, and we're not trying to replace your judgement with an algorithm. Your judgement is what candidates pay for.

  • Nothing sends without you

    Every message a candidate reads is one you chose to send. When AI suggestions arrive, they'll wait for your approval too.

  • Private means private

    The DM history you paste in and your notes are marked as yours alone. Candidates see the chat and nothing else.

  • Every change is on the record

    Edited details, invitations, notes, who joined and who left: each is logged with who did it and when. Removing something never erases it.

  • It works without the AI

    The first version is a complete inbox and candidate list with no AI in it. AI help comes next, and if it ever fails you keep working.

Privacy

Your candidates are yours alone.

Candidates tell you personal things. That information stays inside your account and is never pooled or shared.

  • Every record belongs to one matchmaker. No other account can see it, and none of our tools look across accounts.
  • If someone is a candidate of two matchmakers, they get two separate records. Neither of you can find out about the other.
  • Candidates only see their chat with you. Never your notes, the DM history you pasted in, the change history or other candidates.
  • Nothing is deleted. If a candidate leaves or closes their account, you keep the conversation and your notes. They're told this before they accept your invitation.

Questions

Before you ask

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